{"id":11028,"date":"2025-10-28T05:14:00","date_gmt":"2025-10-28T04:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/?p=11028"},"modified":"2025-10-05T09:27:50","modified_gmt":"2025-10-05T08:27:50","slug":"tout-pardonner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/tout-pardonner\/","title":{"rendered":"Tout pardonner ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bonjour, j&rsquo;esp\u00e8re que vous allez bien. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On doit arr\u00eater de r\u00e9p\u00e9ter : \u00ab Pardonne, c\u2019est la famille. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7a sonne comme un conseil qui peut sembler plein de sagesse, mais trop souvent, \u00e7a fait plus de mal que de bien.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"456\" height=\"551\" src=\"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/image-30.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11029\" srcset=\"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/image-30.png 456w, http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/image-30-248x300.png 248w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 456px) 100vw, 456px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>La v\u00e9rit\u00e9, c\u2019est que la famille avait une responsabilit\u00e9 :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"16\" width=\"16\" alt=\"\u27a1\ufe0f\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t9e\/1\/16\/27a1.png\"> Me prot\u00e9ger, pas me briser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"16\" width=\"16\" alt=\"\u27a1\ufe0f\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t9e\/1\/16\/27a1.png\"> \u00catre mon refuge, pas la source de mes blessures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"16\" width=\"16\" alt=\"\u27a1\ufe0f\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t9e\/1\/16\/27a1.png\"> Me tendre la main, pas me tourner le dos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avoir le m\u00eame sang ne donne pas le droit d\u2019envahir ma paix, d\u2019ab\u00eemer mon c\u0153ur ou de troubler la vie que j\u2019ai mis tant de temps \u00e0 reconstruire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le pardon n\u2019est pas une obligation, et ne se fait pas sur commande non plus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le pardon est un long chemin et il n\u2019a aucun sens quand les excuses n\u2019ont jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 faites, quand les m\u00eames comportements toxiques continuent, quand la douleur reste vive, comme une plaie qu\u2019on refuse de soigner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oui, j\u2019ai le droit de prot\u00e9ger ma paix int\u00e9rieure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00eame si cela signifie poser des limites claires, m\u00eame si cela d\u00e9pla\u00eet \u00e0 ceux qui portent le m\u00eame nom que moi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et si ces limites d\u00e9rangent\u2026 peut-\u00eatre que cela r\u00e9v\u00e8le leur part du probl\u00e8me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cette mentalit\u00e9 qui normalise la souffrance parce qu\u2019elle vient \u00ab de la maison \u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Non. La famille, ce n\u2019est pas seulement le sang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u2019est ceux qui savent aimer sans condition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ceux qui respectent, qui soutiennent, qui r\u00e9parent au lieu de blesser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prenez soin de vous. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Mabelle<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bonjour, j&rsquo;esp\u00e8re que vous allez bien. On doit arr\u00eater de r\u00e9p\u00e9ter : \u00ab Pardonne, c\u2019est la famille. \u00bb \u00c7a sonne comme un conseil qui peut sembler plein de sagesse, mais trop souvent, \u00e7a fait plus de mal que de bien. La v\u00e9rit\u00e9, c\u2019est que la famille avait une responsabilit\u00e9 : Me prot\u00e9ger, pas me briser. &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/tout-pardonner\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuer la lecture de <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Tout pardonner ?<\/span>  <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[109],"tags":[459,79,1397,1409,452,896],"class_list":["post-11028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-meli-melo","tag-amour","tag-douleur","tag-etre-soi","tag-excuses","tag-paix","tag-pardon"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11028"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11028\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11030,"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11028\/revisions\/11030"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}