{"id":12859,"date":"2026-10-05T05:49:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-05T04:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/?p=12859"},"modified":"2026-09-07T19:55:43","modified_gmt":"2026-09-07T18:55:43","slug":"mefie-toi-des-personnes-gentilles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/mefie-toi-des-personnes-gentilles\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e9fie-toi des personnes gentilles."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Pas parce qu\u2019elles sont dangereuses, mais parce qu\u2019elles savent exactement jusqu\u2019o\u00f9 elles peuvent encaisser avant de d\u00e9cider de ne plus jamais revenir.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"632\" height=\"421\" src=\"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-5.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12860\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-5.png 632w, https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-5-300x200.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 632px) 100vw, 632px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Tu peux profiter de leur patience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu peux confondre leur calme avec de la faiblesse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu peux croire que leur silence signifie qu\u2019elles acceptent tout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu peux penser qu\u2019elles pardonneront toujours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mais les personnes profond\u00e9ment gentilles ont souvent une limite tr\u00e8s claire : elles donnent beaucoup, elles comprennent beaucoup, elles pardonnent beaucoup\u2026 jusqu\u2019au jour o\u00f9 elles comprennent qu\u2019elles sont les seules \u00e0 faire des efforts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et ce jour-l\u00e0, elles ne crient pas forc\u00e9ment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elles ne se vengent pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elles ne cherchent pas \u00e0 d\u00e9truire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elles partent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Parce que la vraie gentillesse n\u2019est pas de tout accepter. C\u2019est de savoir aimer sans se trahir soi-m\u00eame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alors ne prends jamais la bont\u00e9 de quelqu\u2019un pour une permission de lui manquer de respect. Les personnes gentilles ne deviennent pas m\u00e9chantes. Elles deviennent simplement absentes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Michel Khoury<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pas parce qu\u2019elles sont dangereuses, mais parce qu\u2019elles savent exactement jusqu\u2019o\u00f9 elles peuvent encaisser avant de d\u00e9cider de ne plus jamais revenir. Tu peux profiter de leur patience. Tu peux confondre leur calme avec de la faiblesse. Tu peux croire que leur silence signifie qu\u2019elles acceptent tout. Tu peux penser qu\u2019elles pardonneront toujours. Mais les &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/mefie-toi-des-personnes-gentilles\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continuer la lecture de <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">M\u00e9fie-toi des personnes gentilles.<\/span>  <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[633,1782,1065,1739,2312,289,1437,896,1400,679,3030,1415,1581],"class_list":["post-12859","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-textes-a-mediter","tag-aimer","tag-bonte","tag-calme","tag-faiblesse","tag-gentillesse","tag-limites","tag-mechancete","tag-pardon","tag-patience","tag-respect","tag-se-trahir","tag-silence","tag-vengeance"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12859","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12859"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12859\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12861,"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12859\/revisions\/12861"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12859"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12859"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/etresoi-e.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12859"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}